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Unicorn

A single, often bisexual, person who joins an existing couple for play — rare and to be approached respectfully.

Unicorn

In libertine and swinging communities, a unicorn is a single person — most often a bisexual woman — who joins an existing couple. The term reflects the rarity of finding someone whose desires align cleanly with a couple's. Modern etiquette stresses treating unicorns as full participants, not accessories.

Frequently asked

Is asking for a unicorn appropriate?

Yes, when approached respectfully. Avoid pressure and recognise the person's independent desires.

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