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Throuple

A throuple — or triad — is a committed romantic relationship between three people, all of whom are involved with one another.

Throuple

A throuple — a blend of "three" and "couple," also called a triad — is a committed relationship between three people. Unlike a couple who occasionally invite a third for play, a throuple is an ongoing relationship in which all three share a genuine bond.

Triads take different shapes. In a closed triad the three are exclusive with one another; in others, one or more partners may also see people outside. What matters is that all three relationships are acknowledged and consensual.

Building a throuple asks for the same foundations as any relationship, multiplied: communication, fairness and attention to everyone's needs so no one feels like an afterthought. Compersion and clear agreements help three people thrive together.

Frequently asked

Is a throuple the same as a threesome?

No. A threesome is a sexual encounter; a throuple is an ongoing, committed three-person relationship.

What is the difference between a throuple and a triad?

They mean the same thing — three people in a mutual relationship. Triad is simply the more traditional polyamory term.

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