Configurations

Vee

A vee is a polyamorous configuration in which one person has two partners who are not themselves romantically involved with each other.

Vee

A vee (written "V") is a polyamorous shape named for the letter it resembles. One person — sometimes called the hinge or pivot — has two partners, while those two partners are not themselves romantically or sexually involved with each other.

The two ends of the V are metamours: connected through the shared partner rather than to one another. They might be close friends, friendly acquaintances or simply respectful, depending on the network's style.

The hinge carries a particular responsibility for balance, time and honesty, since both relationships flow through them. A vee can grow into a triad if the two partners form their own bond, but many remain happily as a V.

Frequently asked

Who is the hinge in a vee?

The hinge (or pivot) is the person who has both relationships; the other two are connected only through them.

Can a vee become a triad?

Yes — if the two outer partners develop their own romantic connection the V can close into a triad, but it does not have to.

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